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Making Polyamory Work

Why Aren't You Being Fair?

Jun 18, 2024
The Multiamory crew discusses aggressive fairness in polyamory, exploring challenges in achieving equity. They touch on maintaining fairness, financial considerations, open money dialogues, and the impact of aggressive fairness on relationships. The podcast emphasizes genuine care over rigid rules and the importance of clear communication in non-monogamous relationships.
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Quick takeaways

  • Avoid aggressive fairness in polyamory to prevent biased expectations.
  • Rigid fairness standards can limit spontaneity in relationships.

Deep dives

Aggressive Fairness in Relationships

Aggressive fairness, a red flag in polyamorous relationships, stems from monogamous conditioning biasing partners' expectations of priority. Each relationship is unique and should not be obliged to mirror others. Regular check-ins can help prioritize individual relationship needs over forced fairness.

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