Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting 2721: My Boyfriend Still Has His Ex-Wife's Stuff by Melissa Josue of Melissa the Love Coach on Jealousy and Communication
Sep 7, 2025
Explore the complexities of relationship insecurities as a listener grapples with her boyfriend's mementos from his past marriage. Dive into the importance of open communication and self-awareness to tackle jealousy and emotional discomfort. The discussion emphasizes understanding the difference between sentimental attachments and current romantic intentions. Learn how to foster trust by seeking reassurance and addressing feelings head-on for a healthier, more fulfilling relationship.
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Ring Kept For Daughters
- Melissa asked her partner about his kept wedding ring and learned he intended to give it to his daughters someday.
- She felt silly after expending emotional energy once she understood his benign reason.
Ask Why He Keeps Items
- Ask your partner directly why they keep items that bother you to discover benign reasons and gain peace of mind.
- Use the answer to assess whether the objects reflect attachment or simply utility.
Keeping Useful Items
- Melissa shared a client story where a man kept his ex-wife's laptop purely because it worked fine.
- The object was retained for utility, not sentiment or longing for the past.