Robb Gilbear, a coach and founder of Growth Habit, shares his journey from DJ to motivational author. He discusses how fear can lead to breakthroughs, the importance of accountability in achieving goals, and the role of storytelling in connecting with others. Robb emphasizes the necessity of digital detoxes for mental clarity and highlights the healing power of forgiveness and empathy. He also touches on adapting to change and using fear-setting to overcome limitations, offering listeners valuable insights on personal growth and resilience.
Learning must extend beyond traditional schooling to foster lifelong curiosity and creativity through various self-directed opportunities.
Hosting impactful events, like 'Do Bold Sh*t,' can significantly inspire personal growth and community connection among participants.
Fear-setting empowers individuals to confront and dismantle their fears, enabling them to pursue meaningful goals with greater resilience.
Deep dives
Decoupling Learning from Schooling
Learning should be separated from traditional schooling as it is a lifelong process that extends beyond formal education. Individuals can pursue knowledge through various means such as reading books, taking online courses, and working with mentors or coaches. The podcast discusses how the educational model is outdated, focusing on training factory workers rather than fostering curiosity and creativity in learners. Emphasizing the need for continuous personal development is essential, as true learning occurs when individuals actively seek out new skills and experiences.
Creating Memorable Events
Organizing impactful events can change the trajectory of a business, as demonstrated by a successful in-person conference called 'Do Bold Shit.' This event inspired attendees to step outside their comfort zones, highlighting the importance of creating a supportive and engaging environment. The speaker shared that participants traveled from various locations, including overseas, which contributed to the event's success and emphasized the broader reach of their community. Such bold actions not only foster connection but also help individuals realize their potential by making them part of a collective experience.
A Journey of Self-Discovery
The speaker reflects on their colorful background, including experiences as a DJ and in HR, which shaped their approach to coaching and mentorship. These diverse roles highlighted the importance of creativity and adaptability in various environments and prepared them for challenges faced in business. Emphasizing the value of personal connection, they became a 'trusted ear' for peers, which ultimately propelled them into coaching. This journey underscores that one's past experiences, regardless of formal education, contribute to personal growth and future success.
Overcoming Personal Struggles
The conversation dives into the impact of personal challenges, such as struggles with alcohol and mental health, which fueled the speaker’s transformation and desire to help others. Emphasizing the importance of support and understanding in overcoming these issues, the speaker highlights introspection and defining one's identity as essential components for recovery. Those experiences cultivated a unique understanding that led to a deep commitment to helping clients navigate their own struggles. This reflects the notion that vulnerability can create a powerful bond and inspire others to improve their circumstances.
The Power of Fear Setting
Fear setting, a concept popularized by Tim Ferriss, is an effective method for addressing fears and taking actionable steps toward goals. By identifying the worst-case scenarios and assessing their likelihood, individuals can empower themselves to confront anxieties. This approach helps dismantle the overwhelming power that fear can hold, enabling people to focus on potential growth and the benefits of taking action. By illuminating fears, individuals can cultivate resilience and minimize hesitation in pursuing meaningful opportunities and experiences.
Robb Gilbear, Coach & Founder of Growth Habit and author of Die Before They Do, joins Jeff Abracen to share how fear can spark breakthroughs, decoupling learning from school, how accountability transforms goals, using storytelling as a tool for connection, the clarity found in digital detoxes, and the power of forgiveness and empathy in healing. Robb also opens up about the personal growth behind his heart tattoo, why adaptability fuels success, how fear-setting can crush limitations, and so much more!
Chapters
00:00 Intro 01:13 The Bold Move: Hosting a Conference 05:01 The Power of Vulnerability and Connection 08:48 From DJ to Business Coach 13:02 The Importance of Attitude Over Credentials 17:10 Finding Meaning Through Struggles 21:02 The Role of Accountability in Growth 25:51 Experiencing Flow and Celebration After the Event 32:01 The Evolution of Coaching 35:51 Personal Growth and Family Dynamics 41:31 Empathy and Understanding in Coaching 45:23 Finding Joy and Humor in Life's Challenges 49:18 Fear Setting: Confronting and Overcoming Fears
