Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 503 - Normalizing Non-Monogamy: Bru + Mark
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Oct 29, 2024 A couple shares their transformative journey into non-monogamy after 18 years of marriage, revealing the challenges they faced and the personal growth they experienced. They reflect on their conservative upbringing and the importance of community support. The discussion touches on managing emotional dynamics, communication, and the evolving nature of relationships. Humorous anecdotes highlight the balancing act of personal truths and societal pressures, ultimately emphasizing the value of authentic connections and internal validation.
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Slow Start Into Non-Monogamy
- Brew and Mark started their journey into non-monogamy about two years ago with a slow, intentional approach.
- They began with hot wifing experiences and are now building connections mostly with couples for friendship and exploration.
Faith Impacted Relationship Views
- Leaving evangelical Christianity impacted their relationship and views on sexuality profoundly.
- They found conflict between their desires and religious/cultural expectations, especially around sexuality and gender roles.
Non-Monogamy Feels Like Grief
- Transition to non-monogamy involved emotional stages similar to grief, including shock and denial.
- They had to rebuild their relationship with new definitions and added new elements that fit their authentic selves.