The discussion shines a light on emotional intelligence and its fundamental role in human connection. The host reflects on a transformative moment when Robin Sharma emphasized the importance of self-relationship. Personal growth is explored through the speaker’s journey from emotional suppression to embracing vulnerability. The desire for deep connections is examined, alongside insights on how these relationships foster joy and acceptance. Additionally, practical solutions for enhancing online retail experiences are touched upon, highlighting the intersection of personal and professional connection.
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Sharma's Self-Relationship
Kevin Miller recalls when Robin Sharma, on The Ziglar Show, prioritized his relationship with himself.
This concept, new to Miller, sparked his ongoing exploration of self-connection.
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External vs. Internal Relationships
Kevin Miller initially viewed relationships as solely external, neglecting his internal self.
He saw himself as a tool for accomplishing tasks, not as a being deserving of connection.
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Family Influence on Emotional Expression
Miller reflects on his upbringing in an emotionally reserved environment, influenced by his parents' backgrounds.
This context shaped his perspective on emotions and self-connection.
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As we continue to discuss emotional intelligence and it being the root of human connection, I want to revisit the most important human connection that I was ignorant of, most of my life. In 2018 when I was host of The Ziglar Show, I had Robin Sharma for the first time. I used to do a segment called Habits & Values where I asked guests about their personal habits in the key areas of life. When I asked about Robin's habits and values in regards to relationships he surprised me by stating that the first value and priority in his relationships was the relationship he had with himself. This concept has never occurred to me. I viewed relationships as my relating to and with other people. Not myself. This brings us to today and my recent discussion with psychologist, professor, and director of Personal Development at Georgetown University, Patrick Kilcarr, one of the greatest experts I’ve experienced in regards to emotional intelligence. And the foundation of emotional intelligence that Patrick discusses in his book, Leading An Emotionally Intelligent Life, is human connection. And the first and most vital human connection is the connection we have with ourselves. And even as I say that and you may nod, do you really understand what that is? Because it proves very difficult for me. Leading An Emotionally Intelligent Life: Expanding Your Emotional Intelligence to Make Courageous Decisions and Transform Your Life. Patrick’s website https://theeilife.com