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Wild with Sarah Wilson

BO SEO: How to fix polarization? By disagreeing…more!

Apr 11, 2023
Bo Seo, world champion debater and author, discusses the problem of polarization and the need for more constructive disagreement. He shares tips on making killer points, combatting bullshitters, and arguing with partners. They explore when to engage in disputes and the value of embracing disagreement. Strategies for navigating disagreements in relationships are also discussed. The importance of framing disagreements and persuasive arguments is highlighted.
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Quick takeaways

  • Being persuasive is more important than being right and arguments should focus on showing the truth and importance of the main claim, as well as why it should change the other person's mind.
  • Productive engagement requires considering the perspectives and motivations of all participants while avoiding personal attacks or dominance shows.

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The Importance of Disagreeing Well

Bo Siou, a two-time world debating champion, highlights the significance of engaging in good arguments and the need for improved disagreement tactics. He emphasizes that being persuasive is more important than being right, and that arguments should focus on showing the truth and importance of the main claim, as well as why it should change the other person's mind. Bo suggests using the framework of the four W's (what, why, when, and who cares) to structure arguments effectively. He also advises using techniques such as side switching to challenge one's own beliefs, and responding to bad faith arguments by exposing the lack of substance and demanding clearer positions. Bo believes that learning to argue well can lead to better conversations, deeper connections, and a more inclusive community.

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