Getting (and Getting Over) THE ICK with Jared Freid
Aug 14, 2023
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Comedian and podcaster Jared Freid joins the hosts to discuss 'the ick' in relationships. They define it, share their own icks, and discuss if icks have gone too far. They also talk about Extension-gate, the difference between 'bad dates' in NYC vs. LA, and airline loyalty. Before Jared joins, they catch up on Rayna's Italy trip, debate the best pizza chain, and share childhood stories.
Choosing the right airline and being loyal to it is important for the perks and benefits it provides.
Noticing Ashley's hair extensions for the first time during a video clip made Jared realize how different it looked and found it amusing.
Jared recommends thrilling and suspenseful books like The Guest, The Perfect Marriage, etc.
Jared enjoys the new cast members and the fresh energy they bring to the Real Housewives of New York reboot.
Jared is excited about his upcoming Netflix special, 37 and Single, and appreciates the support from his friends.
Jared discusses the importance of being with others while traveling, especially in big cities, for better interaction and connection.
Deep dives
Jared Freid talks about his recurring guest appearances on the Girls Gotta Eat Podcast
Jared Freid is the most recurring guest in the history of the podcast Girls Gotta Eat. He hosts multiple podcasts such as JTrain and U Up. He is also known for his live-streaming commentary on The Bachelor. His special, "37 and Single," will be released on Netflix soon. Jared is always excited to be on the podcast and feels like a part of the Girls Gotta Eat universe.
The importance of choosing the right airline
Jared emphasizes the importance of choosing the right airline. He is a dedicated Delta customer and has converted his boyfriend to fly with Delta as well. Jared cannot fathom someone not being loyal to a specific airline and not valuing the benefits and perks they provide.
Jared's thoughts on Ashley getting hair extensions
Jared shares his initial shock when he saw Ashley with hair extensions, describing it as two different hair colors and finding it amusing. He admits that he didn't mention it to her at the time, and only later when watching a video clip did he realize how different it looked.
Jared's recent book recommendations
Jared shares his recent book recommendations, including The Guest, The Perfect Marriage, The Wife Between Us, The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo, Never Have I Ever, and The Maidens. He describes the types of books he prefers, particularly those with thrilling or suspenseful plots.
Thoughts on the Real Housewives of New York reboot
Jared expresses his enjoyment of the Real Housewives of New York reboot, noting that the new cast members bring fresh and different energy to the show. He believes it is a fun reboot and is thoroughly enjoying watching the season.
Jared's excitement about his own Netflix special
Jared is thrilled about his upcoming Netflix special, 37 and Single. He refers to it as an amazing experience and appreciates how supportive his friends have been.
Jared's thoughts on solo travel
Jared discusses his thoughts on solo travel and emphasizes the importance of being with other people while traveling, particularly in big cities where there is more opportunity for interaction and connection. He notes that traveling alone in small towns can sometimes be lonely and less fulfilling.
Jared's comments on his love for stories with dead bodies
Jared jokes about his preference for stories that involve dead bodies, finding suspenseful plots intriguing and exciting. He jokingly talks about dating a hairstylist and the excitement of seeing different hairstyles each week.
The speaker discusses the concept of 'ick' and how it can impact attraction.
The speaker delves into the idea of 'ick' in relationships and how certain behaviors or characteristics can make someone lose attraction. They explain that 'ick' is often superficial and can be different for everyone, highlighting that it's important to distinguish between an 'ick' and a genuine turn-off. They mention that men generally don't experience 'ick' as much as women because they tend to only pursue people they are attracted to from the beginning.
The speaker explores the role of communication in relationships and how it can contribute to 'ick'.
The speaker emphasizes the importance of effective communication in relationships and how poor communication or certain communication styles can contribute to 'ick'. They mention specific examples, such as baby talk, singing to someone, or using excessive reaction emojis in text messages, that can be turn-offs for some individuals. They note that communication preferences and compatibility play a significant role in attraction and relationship dynamics.
The speaker discusses certain behaviors and actions that can contribute to 'ick'.
The Lord has returned! Our most recurring guest Jared Freid (comedian, podcaster, ick whisperer) joins us to talk about THE ICK. We define what the ick is (and what it isn’t), break down icks vs. turnoffs, share our own icks and Jared’s favorites from around the world, discuss ick appropriation and if icks have gone too far, and Jared explains down why guys don’t get the ick. We also talk about Extension-gate, the main difference between “bad dates” in NYC vs. LA, and airline loyalty, and then we have one of the most awkward moments in Girls Gotta Eat history. Before Jared joins us, we’re catching up on Rayna’s Italy trip and our latest thoughts on solo travel, debate which pizza chain is best, and Ashley shares the psychotic thing she did to her brother’s Barbie when they were kids. AND we have tons of TV and book recs. Enjoy!
Watch Jared’s new special “37 & Single” on Netflix, follow him on Instagram @jaredfreid, and visit his website for tour dates and more.
