The Terri Cole Show 713 Master the Art of Conversation with Jefferson Fisher
May 1, 2025
Jefferson Fisher, a lawyer and communication expert known for his book, The Next Conversation, joins the discussion on mastering effective dialogue. He shares how his upbringing shaped his communication style and emphasizes the importance of directness in conversation. Jefferson reveals techniques for staying calm during difficult discussions and the value of emotional regulation. They explore the detrimental effects of stonewalling in relationships and offer insights on setting boundaries for healthier interactions.
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Legal Roots Shape Communication
- Jefferson Fisher grew up deeply immersed in law as a fifth-generation trial attorney's son.
- He learned communication skills early by observing courtrooms and his father's teaching style.
Observer Perspective in Conversations
- Effective communication includes stepping outside the conversation to observe it.
- This helps identify underlying issues beyond the immediate argument.
Calmness Is True Power
- Emotional self-regulation is crucial for sustaining calm, effective communication.
- It conveys unshakable power and prevents reactionary responses.
