Life Kit Dear LK: My kids are enemies. What should I do?
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Nov 2, 2023 Sibling rivalry can turn homes upside down, and this podcast dives deep into the chaos. A psychologist helps parents facing relentless bullying between siblings, offering insights into the emotional roots of such behavior. Listeners learn how to foster connection and compassion, while also setting boundaries. The conversation emphasizes understanding children's temperaments and the importance of open communication to navigate these sibling conflicts effectively. Tune in for strategies that can transform the sibling dynamic!
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Addressing the Daughter's Behavior
- Approach your daughter with empathy, acknowledging her struggles instead of labeling her as "bad".
- Offer a dedicated time for her to express negative feelings about her brother without judgment or interruption.
Supporting the Son
- Reassure your son that his sister's words are not his fault and that you are taking steps to address the situation.
- Apologize for not protecting him enough and commit to making a change in the sibling dynamic.
Helping the Son Cope
- Ask your son how he feels when his sister says mean things, showing interest in his perspective.
- Teach him coping mechanisms like pushing away hurtful words and recognizing they don't reflect his worth.
