Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled How to Handle Our Kids' Obsessive Jealousy
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May 6, 2025 Sibling rivalry gets a fresh perspective as a parent grapples with her son's obsessive jealousy towards his younger sister. The discussion dives into emotional acceptance and the importance of acknowledging feelings to improve sibling dynamics. Strategies empower parents to foster open communication, allowing children to express their emotions safely. By navigating these complex feelings, families can cultivate healthier relationships and reduce conflict, making way for love amidst the chaos.
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Acceptance Eases Jealousy
- Acceptance of a child's feelings, not just behaviors, is crucial for handling jealousy and rivalry between siblings.
- Feeling accepted helps children manage their difficult emotions and reduces obsession with competing over things.
Jealousy and Envy Defined
- Jealousy in siblings stems from fear of losing parental attention and feeling rivalry.
- Envy is the discontent longing for the advantages the other child has, especially as the younger is naturally defended more.
Calmly Accept and Mediate
- Acknowledge a child's jealousy and desire to have more without harsh judgment about the behavior.
- Allow siblings to negotiate their own conflicts where possible, stepping in calmly only to mediate.
