The Kink Consultant Everything You Need to Know Before Going Through the Back Door with Annette Benedetti
Oct 17, 2025
Join Annette Benedetti, a certified sex and intimacy coach and host of Talk Sex with Annette, as she dives deep into the pleasures of anal play. Annette shares practical tips for preparation and cleanliness, discusses essential toys, and emphasizes the power of communication and consent. She breaks down the myths surrounding virginity and highlights the importance of curiosity over shame. With laughter and real-life advice, listeners will gain confidence to explore this intimate adventure safely and joyfully.
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Virginity Is A Social Construct
- Virginity is a social construct that values lack of sexual knowledge over skilled, pleasurable experience.
- Annette argues sexual experience and knowledge should be prized like any other valuable skill.
Podcast Sparked Her Coaching Career
- Annette started sex coaching after launching her podcast to give women a sexual voice and reclaim agency after surviving sexual assault.
- She uses education to help women regain pleasure, power, and safety in their sexuality.
The Double Standard On Experience
- Society rewards sexual experience in men but praises inexperience in women, creating a double standard.
- Annette highlights how this hypocrisy devalues women's sexual skill and agency.