

The Crisis of Men and Boys — with Jonathan Haidt and Richard Reeves
282 snips Aug 14, 2025
In a compelling discussion, social psychologist Jonathan Haidt, author of The Anxious Generation, and Richard Reeves, founding president of the American Institute for Boys and Men, explore the growing crisis facing young men and boys. They delve into the impact of technology on childhood experiences, the loss of meaningful interactions, and alarming mental health issues fueled by societal pressures. The duo offers insights on restoring purpose and connection in a world where traditional rites of passage are fading, highlighting the need for mentorship and support.
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Smartphones Caused A Childhood Pivot
- The smartphone pivot (2010–2015) created a qualitative change in childhood by connecting kids to persistent, targeted tech.
- This dramatically increased companies' power to shape youth attention and meaning.
Embodied Play Makes Mental Health
- In-person free play builds bonding via synchronous movement, touch, laughter, and shared meals.
- Losing those embodied interactions explains rises in youth anxiety, depression, and meaninglessness.
Quick Rich Fantasies Replace Slow Launches
- Young men crave quick wealth (passive income) because slow accumulation feels unavailable and boring.
- This desire fuels attraction to crypto, betting, and scams promising rapid status and mating leverage.