New Mindset, Who Dis? 671 - "Please Be as Weird as Me" (making friends as an adult)
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Feb 3, 2025 Making friends as an adult can be tricky, but it's all about embracing your weirdness. The conversation contrasts fitting in with connecting authentically. A unique method for finding like-minded individuals is discussed, encouraging listeners to celebrate their individuality. Strategies for actively engaging in social environments are shared, reminding us that building connections requires initiative. Ultimately, it's about fostering genuine relationships that reflect who you truly are.
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Friendship: Fitting In vs. Connecting
- Making friends as an adult is not about fitting in but about being understood.
- Operating from connection instead of inclusion changes the whole experience.
Friendship by Proximity Story
- In an entry-level job in Chicago, Case made friends easily due to proximity and aligned schedules.
- This contrasts with later jobs where diverse ages and life stages made forming friendships harder.
Adult Friendships Are Guarded
- Adults become more guarded making friendship formation harder.
- Emotional bandwidth, trust, and mutual worthiness questions replace carefree bonding.