The Happy Millions Show With Liz Benny Living Your True Purpose: Beyond Gender Expectations - with Nicole Kalil
SUMMARY:
In this episode, we have an extraordinary guest who is set to inspire and empower you, Nicole Kalil, an in-demand speaker, best-selling author of Validation Is For Parking, respected coach, and the dynamic host of the “This Is Woman’s Work” podcast.
With a passion for eliminating gender expectations and redefining what “woman’s work” truly means, Nicole’s mission is to help women live their true purpose and be who they are meant to be without constraints. She shared her unique approach to building confidence, coupled with actionable tools and insights, which sets her apart in a world full of experts.
Nicole also shared her journey to being a renowned coach who has influenced thousands of women in business. We delve into her insights on the social challenges that women face in leadership roles and how these barriers can be overcome. We also discussed the added pressures women experience, such as balancing professional success with personal responsibilities, and how redefining success from a personal perspective can lead to a more fulfilling and balanced life.
Get ready for an inspiring conversation on how to achieve success without sacrificing what matters most! Nicole’s genuine and actionable advice will help you understand the importance of authenticity in pursuing success.If you're striving to make millions, finding balance in your personal and professional life, or trying to break free from societal expectations, this episode is for you. Don't miss out on this empowering episode!
SHOW NOTES:
00:00:00 Introducing Nicole Kalil and Her Mission
00:08:54 The Connection Between Confidence and Clarity
00:11:43 Trusting Yourself
00:16:55 One Thing Nicole is Most Passionate About
00:20:11 What Success Truly Means
00:25:37 The Journey of Becoming A Better Version
00:37:30 A Spiritual Experience
00:40:33 The Enemy Of Confidence is Perfectionism
00:48:44 A Piece of Advice
00:50:24 Fun Fast Q&A
QUOTES
“Eliminate gender expectations so that we can all show up in our lives, in our worlds, in our work as who we authentically are and live our purposes and be who we're meant to be without the constraints, the expectations, the limitations that the packaging that we come in often lends itself to.”
“It's this knowing who you are, owning who you're not, embracing all of it. I think when you trust yourself and you get quiet and you really listen to what matters and what you know to be true and all of that, it creates clarity.”
“When people say, listen to the whispers of the universe or trust God, like whatever your belief system is, it can be one of the most petrifying but also one of the most liberating experiences.”
“Confidence is inside of me, and it's my choice whether or not I want to connect to it, whether or not I want to listen to it, whether or not I want to choose to trust myself. My hope from an action perspective, and when I speak, I would put myself more in the tactical side.”
“Success to me is first and foremost, having personal health. So that's mental, emotional and physical. So taking care of my mind. Taking care of my body. Feeling and experiencing and allowing all my feelings, but not letting them own me. So I like the expression, ‘it's okay to have your feelings. They just can't have you.’”
“I love who I am, and I'm not trying to convince people to like me.”
“The more I'm up to something that matters, the bigger stage that I'm operating in and from, the more there are going to be people who don't like me.”
“So there might be more haters, but there are more lovers as well. Well, and the more you show up as yourself, the more authentic you are, the easier you make it for your people to find you.”
“Perfectionism is the enemy of confidence. It's an unachievable, unattainable goal that we have no hopes other than to fall short on. “
“Nobody creates confidence without messiness. Nobody creates a life worth living without making some mistakes along the way.”