The Long and The Short Of It 328. Relative Tanking
Jan 7, 2025
Explore the intriguing concept of 'relative tanking' and why minor failures seem magnified. The hosts dive into the challenges of maintaining high standards versus embracing 'good enough' work. Personal stories reveal insights on self-doubt during workshops and the value of peer feedback. Discover the power of reflective scripting for personal growth and the importance of perspective in navigating disagreements. Ultimately, they emphasize self-compassion amidst the pressures of professional life.
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Jen's Workshop Mishap
- Jen Waldman panicked during a workshop for The Spark File when her notes were out of order.
- Despite her internal distress, the attendees and hosts praised the workshop, highlighting the concept of relative tanking.
Pete's TEDx Blackout
- Pete had a moment during a TEDx talk where he blacked out, causing him significant internal distress.
- Upon reviewing the recording, the pause was unnoticeable, demonstrating a disconnect between perceived and actual performance.
Excellence vs. Good Enough
- Striving for excellence involves constantly raising the bar and getting 1% better.
- Paradoxically, accepting "good enough" can coexist with this pursuit, acknowledging that not every performance needs to be perfect.