The Art of Manliness

Escape the Safety Trap

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Jul 20, 2022
Spencer Coursen, a combat veteran and threat management expert, discusses the crucial concept of the 'safety trap'—the illusion that we are safest when we rely on external authorities. He reveals how an avoidance mindset can heighten danger and the pitfalls of the run-hide-fight response to threats. Coursen emphasizes personal responsibility in safety, shares ways to recognize warning signs of violence, and even touches on empowering children to identify safe spaces. His insights redefine how we approach personal security in an increasingly complex world.
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INSIGHT

The Safety Trap Paradox

  • Feeling safe can decrease vigilance, increasing risk.
  • Safety is a continuous journey, not a destination.
ADVICE

Overcome Avoidance

  • Practice addressing small concerns to build confidence.
  • This prepares you for handling larger problems and avoiding avoidance.
INSIGHT

Beware False Authority

  • False authority figures may lack real expertise in emergencies.
  • Consider if instructions benefit you or the authority figure.
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