The Daily Stoic

We Are All Unreliable Narrators | Revenge Is A Dish Best Not Served

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Oct 13, 2023
Discover how personal biases shape our self-narratives and often lead to misunderstandings. Explore the dangers of revenge and learn why a Stoic response focuses on integrity rather than retaliation. Unpack the complex nature of justice versus vengeance, revealing how reframing our perspectives can enhance mental well-being. The discussion gives practical insights on how to navigate conflicts without letting emotions distort our reality.
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INSIGHT

Unreliable Narrators

  • We tell ourselves stories all day, often blaming ourselves or misinterpreting others' actions.
  • We can choose a better story by recognizing our own narrative biases, similar to Epictetus's two handles.
ADVICE

Resisting Revenge

  • Resist the urge for revenge when wronged; it often harms us more than the initial offense.
  • Instead, strive to be better than the bad behavior, setting a positive example.
ANECDOTE

Peter Thiel's Revenge

  • Ryan Holiday discusses Peter Thiel's revenge against Gawker Media.
  • He highlights the irony of Thiel's quest for justice, leading him down a negative path.
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