What I Love About Sex #386 Five things I would never do after being a sexologist
May 9, 2025
Discover how being a sexologist reshaped the way intimacy is viewed. Learn five essential lessons that emphasize open communication and the balance of quantity and quality in sexual experiences. The conversation also delves into the importance of constructive feedback for fostering healthier relationships. These insights reveal how one's professional experiences can significantly impact personal life.
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Avoid Pressure on Sexual Performance
- Stephanie shared a personal experience where she tried too hard to help a partner with ED by persistently continuing sex.
- She now realizes it added pressure and would instead suggest moving on to something else, avoiding performance comments.
Ask Directly About Preferences
- Always ask your partner directly what they love in bed and what they want more of.
- Checking in regularly builds confidence and ensures satisfaction reflects changing desires.
Quality Over Quantity in Sex
- More frequent sex does not equate to a healthier relationship.
- Quality of sex matters more than quantity, as frequent but unsatisfactory sex can harm relationships.