THE AUTISM ADHD PODCAST Parent Conflict to Collaboration: How To Come Together For Your PDA Child
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Nov 13, 2024 Lindsay Flanagan, a neurodivergent mom and licensed clinical social worker, shares her journey as a parent coach for caregivers of demand-avoidant children. She discusses the struggles of differing parenting styles and emphasizes the importance of collaboration. They explore the necessity of positive intent in parenting and how emotional regulation can strengthen partnerships. Lindsay provides practical tips for navigating the challenges of encouraging self-advocacy in neurodivergent kids, fostering a supportive and understanding environment.
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Differing Parenting Styles
- Parenting styles are influenced by upbringing, personal experiences, and knowledge of neurodiversity.
- One parent may be more informed about neurodiversity, especially if they manage appointments and school meetings.
Husband's Intuition
- Lindsay Flanagan shares how she was attuned to her son's emotional needs but missed early dysregulation signs.
- Her husband, also neurodivergent, could predict meltdowns, showing how parents perceive things differently.
Open Communication
- Practice open communication, even if it's difficult, to address parenting challenges.
- Acknowledge and discuss underlying fears about the child's future to find common ground.