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John Edward: Stop Trying to “Move On” After Loss (Use THIS Daily Practice to Make Peace Without the Answers)

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Jan 28, 2026

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John Edward

John Edward, psychic medium and author known for his mediumship and Crossing Over, offers a fresh take on grief and connection. He discusses why people seek contact after loss, how skepticism can open doors, scientific testing of mediumship, and daily rituals to keep loved ones present. Short, curious, and compassionate insights into living with loss and honoring those who remain.

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INSIGHT

Connection, Not Closure

People seek mediums believing they want closure, but what they actually seek is connection and reassurance that consciousness survives death.
John Edward says mediums don't fix grief; they catalyze a path of discovery and reframing of loss into ongoing relationship.

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ADVICE

Practice Objective Skepticism

Be skeptically open: ask for evidence and watch for process, but avoid closed cynicism that refuses any possibility.
John Edward advises objective skepticism, not judgmental dismissal, and recommends watching for legitimate practices before believing.

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ADVICE

Demand Clear Validation

Look for validation and evidence in readings, not just generic language or symbolic clichés like butterflies and pennies.
John Edward advises avoiding readers who rely on common tropes or give philosophy instead of verifiable specifics.

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Why People Seek Mediums

01:43 • 1min

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Expectations and Disappointment in Readings

02:54 • 1min

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Origins of the Desire to Connect

03:59 • 1min

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Skepticism vs. Cynicism

05:00 • 5min

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Testing Mediumship Scientifically

09:36 • 3min

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Avoiding Vagueness and Cold-Reading Tricks

12:33 • 1min

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How Readings Feel and Appear

13:50 • 4min

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Developing Intuitive Skills

17:47 • 2min

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Handling Sensitive Topics in Readings

19:53 • 2min

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How a One-on-One Reading Works

22:06 • 4min

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John's First Reading and Path

When to Seek a Reading

34:11 • 3min

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Numerology as Context in Readings

37:05 • 4min

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How John Structures Validations

40:37 • 3min

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Unexpected Connections and After-the-Fact Validation

43:36 • 2min

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Beliefs on Reincarnation and Consciousness

45:28 • 6min

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Fear, Love, and the Energetic Frame

51:46 • 2min

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Reframing Grief as Opportunity

Living With Grief and Finding Joy

01:04:43 • 4min

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Time, Rituals, and Honoring Stories

01:08:27 • 3min

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When Grief Becomes Stuck

01:11:47 • 5min

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Astrology as a Diagnostic Tool

01:16:34 • 28sec

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Honoring Loss Without Being Defined

Keeping Loved Ones Present Daily

01:22:54 • 3min

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What Matters: Love Over Possessions

01:25:57 • 2min

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Avoiding Dependency on Readings

01:27:34 • 2min

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Chasing Evil: Working with an FBI Agent

01:29:51 • 4min

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Resources and Where to Learn More

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'The Infinite Quest' is the second installment in the Sugi dan Laura series. Written by Fino Y. K., who has authored 3 books, it has garnered 61 ratings on Goodreads with an average score of 3. 38.

Today, Jay welcomes internationally recognized psychic medium John Edward for an eye-opening conversation about grief, healing, and the survival of consciousness. John shares how people often come to him hoping for closure after losing a loved one, only to realize that what they truly find is connection. Rather than “fixing” grief, his work helps people recognize that love continues beyond the physical world and that healing comes not from moving on from loss, but from reframing how we see it. Through his own journey from skeptic to seeker, John illustrates how curiosity and openness can lead us to deeper truths about life and beyond.

Together, Jay and John break down the biggest misconceptions about mediumship, especially the fine line between skepticism and cynicism. John shares why healthy skepticism can actually be a gateway to discovery, while cynicism closes the door before anything begins. He also walks through the scientific studies that have examined his abilities, how he receives information through clairvoyance, clairaudience, and clairsentience, and why validation is at the core of every reading.

John emphasizes that no one truly “needs” a reading, they need understanding. By reframing grief as the other side of love, he invites us to honor our emotions, say what matters while our loved ones are still here, and discover meaningful ways to carry their presence forward. From keeping traditions alive to sharing their stories, John reminds us that our connections don’t end, they endure when we choose to include those we’ve lost in our everyday lives.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Reframe Grief Into Growth

How to Recognize Real Connection vs. Closure

How to Tell If a Psychic Is Genuine

How to Keep Loved Ones Present After Loss

How to Talk About Death Without Fear

How to Find Lessons Hidden in Grief

How to Honor Your Loved One’s Legacy

Grief may leave cracks in our hearts, yet those very cracks can become the places where light enters and strength is revealed. Each moment we choose to honor the past while embracing the present, we create space for deeper connection, renewed purpose, and lasting peace.

Check out John’s latest book, Chasing Evil: Shocking Crimes, Supernatural Forces, and an FBI Agent’s Search for Hope and Justice.

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Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

00:28 Why Do People Really Go See a Medium?

01:11 Turning Grief Into Discovery

03:37 Skepticism vs. Cynicism

07:53 The Science Behind Psychic Studies

12:08 How Messages Are Received in a Reading

16:04 What Actually is a Psychic Medium?

18:10 Everything Is Energy

20:25 Red Flags to Look for in Readings