Men in the Arena - Christian Men's Podcast REBOOT: Calm Parenting: Discipline Without Anger w/ Kirk Martin EP 875
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Jul 4, 2025 Kirk Martin, founder of Celebrate Calm and host of the Calm Parenting Podcast, joins Jim Ramos to discuss transforming discipline without anger. He shares personal stories about the challenges of raising strong-willed children and emphasizes the need for engaged fatherhood. The duo explores effective communication strategies and the importance of setting boundaries, highlighting how calmness fosters better connections. They advocate for understanding children's emotions and promoting respectful interactions to enhance parent-child relationships.
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Kirk's Tough Parenting Story
- Kirk Martin shares his struggle with his strong-willed son Casey who often defied simple tasks like taking out the trash.
- His frustration led to harsh discipline and regret, highlighting the challenge of parenting strong-willed kids.
Control Your Tone First
- Control your own tone and body language to influence your child's behavior positively.
- Speaking in an even, matter-of-fact tone can prevent escalation with strong-willed kids.
Use Eye Contact Wisely
- Avoid direct eye contact with strong-willed children when addressing misbehavior to prevent shame and shutdown.
- Use eye contact affirmatively when they make good choices to encourage positive behavior.