The Dr. John Delony Show

My Husband’s White Lies Are Ruining Our Marriage

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Dec 22, 2025
Jade joins the conversation to seek advice about her husband's habitual lying. John Delony skillfully guides her through understanding the roots of dishonesty, suggesting it often stems from feelings of unworthiness. He emphasizes the importance of leading with vulnerability in their discussions, recommending structured conversations to foster openness. They also touch on navigating sensitive topics like sexuality with children and setting healthy boundaries, ensuring families can communicate better. It's a heartfelt exploration of relationship dynamics!
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INSIGHT

Small Lies Signal Low Self-Worth

  • Chronic small lies often point to deeper issues of self-worth and insecurity.
  • John suggests these minor fabrications are symptoms of a man who doesn't feel he measures up.
ADVICE

Set A Safe, Structured Conversation

  • Schedule a two-hour, no-phones conversation and ask him to stay present without eye-rolling.
  • Read what you plan to say and plan a follow-up hour so he can process and respond.
ADVICE

Start Sex Talks With Honest, Simple Language

  • Begin talks with your teen by owning your awkwardness and admitting past silence about sex.
  • Normalize body parts and responses while assuring safety and truth over internet misinformation.
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