I Have ADHD Podcast 363 BITESIZE | The Unsexy Truth About Accommodating Neurodivergent Kids
Dec 25, 2025
In this conversation, Greg Carder, a dedicated parent sharing his journey with neurodivergent kids, discusses the realities of accommodating their unique needs. He reveals how medication transformed his son's anxiety and motor tics. Greg emphasizes the importance of clear instructions and patience, detailing strategies like breaking down tasks and providing hands-on support. They explore the necessity of tailoring accommodations to individual needs, while also allowing for a balance between support and independence, creating a harmonious family environment.
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Medication Reduced Tics And Increased Presence
- Greg describes his medicated child coming out of his room more and being more present with family.
- He noticed visible relaxation and reduction in motor tics that had caused anxiety for the child.
Parent Cleans Room To Meet Child's Needs
- Greg admits he still cleans one son's room because the child lacks capacity to keep it livable.
- Kristen highlights how making the bed and tidying supports that child's ability to exist comfortably at home.
Spell Out Steps Beforehand
- Explain tasks step-by-step in advance and as you go to set neurodivergent kids up for success.
- Spell out timings, roles, and sequence instead of assuming they'll anticipate steps.