554: Tim Urban - Becoming a High-Rung Thinker, Being The Boss of The Ideas In Your Own Head, Writing Wait But Why, & The Best Advice He's Ever Received
Tim Urban, a high-rung thinker and author of Wait But Why, discusses becoming a high-rung thinker, being the boss of the ideas in your own head, and the best advice he received. Topics include independent thinking, humility, and seizing opportunities.
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Being a higher rung thinker means prioritizing independent thinking and being open to revising or discarding ideas.
Being the boss of the ideas in your head means being open to change and willing to revise your beliefs.
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Becoming a Higher Rung Thinker
Being a higher rung thinker means prioritizing independent thinking and being open to revising or discarding ideas. It is about serving the ideas rather than letting them dictate your beliefs. Striving to be a higher rung thinker involves humility and a willingness to learn and revise your views based on evidence and new information.
Being the Boss of the Ideas in Your Head
Being the boss of the ideas in your head means being open to change and willing to revise your beliefs. It requires humility and the recognition that no idea should have absolute power over your thinking. It involves actively seeking out new information and being willing to challenge your own assumptions. When you are the boss of the ideas in your head, you are free to revise them and are not tied to rigid beliefs.
Seizing Opportunities in the Present
The advice to seize opportunities in the present applies to various aspects of life, including career and personal growth. Waiting for the perfect moment or more experience may lead to missed opportunities. Embracing the present and taking action can lead to growth and new possibilities. It is important to overcome fear and embrace the unknown, knowing that the future is unpredictable and that taking a chance in the present can yield great results.
Exploring and Experimenting in Early Career
For those starting their careers, it is valuable to explore different paths and experiment with various opportunities. Rather than trying to plan and predict the future, take action and gain experience. Trying different roles, internships, or entrepreneurial endeavors can provide valuable insights, help identify interests and strengths, and contribute to personal growth. It is important to focus on learning, gaining skills, and enjoying the process, rather than getting stuck in indecisiveness or waiting for the perfect opportunity.
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High-rung thinking is independent thinking, leaving you free to revise your ideas or even discard them altogether. On the low rungs, it means you’re working to dutifully serve your ideas, not the other way around.
How can I be the boss of the ideas in my own head?
When you’re the boss of the ideas in your head, you’re always willing to revise them. When there’s no amount of evidence that will change your mind about something, it means that idea is your boss. Humility is the awareness that no idea is worthy of being your boss.
Best advice Tim has ever received:
"I met Chris Anderson, the head of TED, in 2015. He had read a few WBW posts and offered me the opportunity to give a TED Talk at the 2016 conference (which was six months away). Immediately full of both gratitude/excitement and dread/anxiety, I asked him if it might be better to wait a couple years until I had some more speaking experience. He paused thoughtfully for a few seconds before saying, “There’s no time like the present.” I took his advice. Since then, his voice saying those words has popped into my head again and again during hard decisions, and I’m yet to regret following them."
Great advice is sometimes great because it’s totally original or framed in an original way. But, as in my story, a well-known platitude, at the perfect moment, can also make a huge impact. What makes Chris’s advice so valuable to me wasn’t that it was something new—it was that the lesson I learned from taking the advice in that particular moment turned a cliché into a mantra.
No one “builds a house.” They lay one brick again and again and again and the end result is a house. A remarkable, glorious achievement is just what a long series of unremarkable, unglorious tasks looks like from far away.
“If I aired a highlight reel of your most selfish life moments and most shameful thoughts, you'd seem like an awful person. If I aired a reel of your best, kindest moments, you'd seem like a saint. But people aren't highlight reels, and the unedited cut is always a messy mix!”
Kids Asking WHY? When kids repeatedly ask “why?” they’re trying to see the underlying reasoning behind what they’re told by authorities. “Because I said so” rejects that instinct and says “stop reasoning and obey.” We then become adults who only know how to trust authorities other than ourselves.
High Rung Thinking:
Rung 1 - Thinking like a Scientist. When you’re thinking like a scientist, you start at point A and follow evidence wherever it takes you.
Rung 2 - Thinking like a sports fan. They want the game played fairly, but they really want the process to yield a certain outcome.
Rung 3 - Thinking like an attorney. When you think like an attorney, you start from point B. The client is not guilty. Now let’s figure out why. They cherry-pick evidence and piece it together to make an argument that leads where you want it to.
Rung 4 - Thinking like a zealot. Their ideas aren’t rugged experiments to be kicked around, they’re fragile, precious babies to be adored and protected. The zealot doesn’t have to go from A to B to know their viewpoints are correct– they just know they are. With 100% conviction.
Life/Career advice: "I'd give the same advice to someone who's trying to find someone to marry. Go on lots of dates. Experiment. Do stuff. Get out in the world. You can only connect the dots looking backward."
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