In this podcast, the hosts discuss the impact of money on relationships and share practical tips for a healthy sex life. They also highlight the importance of open communication, maintaining intimacy after having kids, and emotional and physical foreplay. Additionally, they emphasize the significance of seeking professional counseling before marriage.
Open communication about money in marriage is crucial to understanding each other's financial backgrounds and shaping a healthier approach to finances.
Understanding and meeting each other's needs in intimacy and sex requires open and honest communication, exploring different ways of being intimate, and finding a middle ground that respects both partners' differences.
Deep dives
The importance of discussing money in marriage
In this episode of the podcast, the hosts emphasize the significance of open communication when it comes to discussing money in a marriage. They stress the need to understand each other's financial backgrounds and how those experiences shape attitudes towards money. They also highlight the importance of budgeting, setting financial goals, and having a plan for debt. The hosts share personal experiences and examples to illustrate how discussing money in a relationship can lead to a healthier and more balanced approach to finances.
The role of intimacy and sex in a marriage
The podcast hosts discuss the importance of understanding and meeting each other's needs when it comes to intimacy and sex in a marriage. They emphasize the need for open and honest communication about expectations, desires, and boundaries. They also encourage couples to explore different ways of being intimate beyond just the physical aspect. The hosts highlight the importance of respecting each other's differences in sex drive and finding a middle ground that works for both partners.
The significance of patience and grace
One of the main themes discussed in the episode is the importance of patience and grace in a marriage. The hosts acknowledge that couples may have different needs and desires when it comes to sex and intimacy. They highlight the need for understanding, compassion, and support when navigating these differences. The hosts stress the importance of viewing sex as a gift and focusing on the emotional and relational aspects of intimacy, rather than just the physical act.
The value of seeking professional help
The hosts emphasize the value of seeking professional help, such as marriage counseling, when facing challenges in a marriage. They encourage couples to view counseling as a safe space to address issues, improve communication, and strengthen their relationship. The hosts debunk the stigma surrounding counseling and emphasize that it is a proactive step towards building a healthy and fulfilling marriage.
The second part of our “Free Marriage Counseling” episode is live now and we cover… Money & Sex
Yes, we do really go there.
💰 MONEY 💰
Have you ever thought about your earliest memory tied with money? What about your partner’s?
Likely, they are very different experiences, but those early emotions tied with it play into your experiences and concept of it as a whole.
💋 SEX 💋
Also we share some practical tips for a healthy sex life:
The “no with an appointment” strategy
Don’t barter for sex (if you do the dishes, then I will XYZ… = dangerous)
Freedom to play when there are agreed upon parameters
I think my favorite part about this episode is that my husband drops the majority of the wisdom on these topics.
Overall, we want you to have great marriages.
I hope these conversations have spurred on helpful discussions with you and those you love!