S2 Ep1145: How to Be an Inclusive and Biblical Church with LGBTQ/SSA People: Evan Wickham
Jan 18, 2024
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Evan Wickham, worship leader, songwriter, and pastor, discusses the challenges and importance of being an inclusive and biblical church for LGBTQ/SSA people. They explore personal experiences, overcoming theological conflicts, and creating a safe space for open conversations and deep questions. The chapter also emphasizes the significance of clarity and preventing conflicts in a church setting.
Create a foundation centered around the gospel and invite all identities to surrender to Jesus.
Communicate clearly and transparently, seek trusted counsel, and find identity in Christ to address challenges of creating an inclusive church.
Take practical steps like hosting support groups, providing pastoral wisdom, and including LGBTQ individuals in leadership roles to create a healthy and inclusive environment.
Deep dives
Creating a Healthy Church for LGBTQ People
The podcast episode explores the topic of creating a healthy church for LGBTQ people while upholding orthodox Christian beliefs about marriage and sexuality. The guest, Evan Wickham, shares his experience leading Park Hill Church in San Diego, which embraces and celebrates LGBTQ individuals within a historically Christian framework. The church emphasizes the importance of foundation, contextualization, and representation. The foundation is centered around preaching the gospel and inviting all identities to surrender to Jesus. Contextualization involves creating a hospitable and safe environment for LGBTQ individuals to ask questions and engage in open dialogue. Representation involves having LGBTQ individuals in leadership and encouraging their full obedience to Jesus while honoring orthodoxy. The conversation discusses fallout and backlash faced by the church, highlighting the need for courageous fidelity to orthodoxy amidst ethical compromise. Overall, the episode provides insights and practical advice for pastors seeking to create a welcoming and inclusive church for LGBTQ individuals.
Navigating Controversial Questions and Fallout
The podcast episode addresses the challenges and fallout that can arise from creating a church that embraces both orthodox Christian beliefs about marriage and sexuality and inclusivity for LGBTQ individuals. The guest shares personal experiences of individuals who initially joined the church but later left due to differences in beliefs surrounding LGBTQ issues. The importance of clear communication and transparency in church leadership is emphasized, as well as the need for leaders to have trusted counsel and spiritual directors. The conversation encourages pastors to find their identity in Christ, to recognize that their lives are centered around Christ and that they have nothing to lose and nothing to prove. It also highlights the example of Mary in the Bible, who displayed humility and courage in accepting her role in God's plan.
Creating Safe Spaces and Providing Support
The podcast episode discusses practical steps taken by Park Hill Church to create a healthy and inclusive environment for LGBTQ individuals. These include hosting a Revoice chapter, a support group that provides a space for individuals to process their experiences of being faithful to Jesus while navigating their sexual minority identities. The importance of having pastoral wisdom, open dialogue, and clear communication is emphasized. The conversation emphasizes the need for churches to provide a foundation based on the gospel, to contextualize their messages to specific communities, and to include LGBTQ individuals in leadership roles. By embracing courageous fidelity to orthodoxy and honoring diversity within the church, pastors can create safe spaces that invite people from all backgrounds to experience the love and grace of Jesus.
Foundational Identity: Becoming a Love Child of God
The podcast explores the idea that our primary identity as Christians becomes that of a love child of God. While our secondary identities are not erased, they are ingraced and transformed by this foundational identity. This understanding has proven helpful in discussing sexuality within the church, as it shifts the focus to how our experiences of sexuality can be lived out in service of Christ as love children of God.
Contextualization: Including Singleness and Diverse Perspectives
The podcast emphasizes the importance of contextualizing discussions on marriage and sexuality to include singleness and diverse perspectives. This means applying the same biblical principles and conversations about sexuality to both married and single individuals, as well as considering the unique experiences and challenges faced by LGBTQ individuals within the church. Creating an inclusive atmosphere and platforming LGBTQ people who faithfully follow Jesus helps the entire body of Christ reflect Jesus' love.
Evan Wickham is a worship leader, songwriter, speaker, and lead pastor of Park Hill Church in San Diego, CA, which he co-founded in 2017 with Sandy, his wife of 23 years (and their five kids).
In addition to helping people encounter Jesus through teaching and meaningful, rooted worship experiences, he has released four albums of worship songs, several of which are sung across the world. He holds an MDiv from Western Seminary and helped launch Searock Sessions, a cohort and growing community for hundreds of leaders seeking renewal in the Western church.