The Psychology of your 20s 207. How to have better conversations
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Jun 25, 2024 Conversations don’t have to be complicated! Discover five practical tips for better interactions, like mastering the 2:1 question ratio and the fast friends protocol. Learn about story topping and bright siding to keep chats lively, while understanding the five-minute urge for speaking. Explore the liking gap, which reveals how we often underestimate each other’s affection. These insights will help you enhance your communication skills and forge deeper connections in all areas of life!
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The 2:1 Question Ratio
- Ask more questions than you answer in conversations, aiming for a 2:1 ratio.
- This makes people feel heard and guides the conversation like a scenic walk.
Ask Better Questions
- Use questions that are surprising, personal, and require thought.
- Avoid simple yes/no questions or those that put the other person on the spot.
Stop Story Topping and Bright Siding
- Avoid "story-topping" where you counter someone's story with a bigger one.
- Also, avoid "bright-siding", where you offer unsolicited optimism to someone sharing a negative experience.