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Being Human

Episode 140: How to Argue (A Relationship Series, Part Three)

Aug 22, 2023
Discover practical tips for effective communication in relationships, debunking the notion that arguing is a sign of trouble. Learn about the four negative styles of communication and how to counteract them. Understand the importance of appreciating relationships and connections in marriage.
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Quick takeaways

  • Starting arguments with a positive approach, acknowledging the good in the relationship, reduces the likelihood of destructive conflict.
  • To counteract contempt in arguments, focus on expressing your own feelings rather than launching personal attacks, fostering understanding and empathy.

Deep dives

Importance of Positive Start in Arguments

When engaging in arguments or disagreements, it is crucial to begin with a positive approach. This means consciously choosing to acknowledge the good in the relationship or the person you are having a disagreement with. By starting with a positive mindset, even in the midst of challenging conversations, it allows for a softer and more productive start to the discussion, reducing the likelihood of destructive conflict.

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