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The Psychology of your 20s

174. Retroactive jealousy

Mar 1, 2024
40:31
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The podcast delves into the psychology of retroactive jealousy in relationships, exploring triggers, insecurities, and the impact on self-esteem. It discusses the importance of trust, communication, and overcoming past trauma to move forward in a healthy way. Topics include rejection sensitivity, self-sabotage, and interrupting mental compulsions.
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Quick takeaways

  • Retroactive jealousy stems from past trauma and insecurities, leading to irrational behaviors like comparing oneself to exes.
  • Managing retroactive jealousy involves cognitive diffusion, avoiding compulsive behaviors, and building self-confidence for a healthier mindset.

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Understanding Retroactive Jealousy

Retroactive jealousy entails feeling envious or threatened by your partner's past relationships. This type of jealousy is often triggered by internal fears and insecurities, rather than actual actions by your partner. It can lead to compulsive behaviors like incessantly comparing yourself to their ex-partners or seeking reassurance. Retroactive jealousy can stem from past relationship trauma, overthinking, insecurity, and self-sabotage, often manifesting as a coping mechanism for deep-rooted vulnerabilities and sensitivities.

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