Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 087 - Five Mistakes Polyamory N00bs Make
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Oct 4, 2016 The podcast explores the common mistakes made by people new to polyamory, including the misconception of simultaneous dating, the importance of individual time in relationships, the ripple effect of relationships, and the universality of making mistakes in polyamory.
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Dating Same Person Myths
- Avoid the myth that dating the same person in polyamory prevents jealousy.
- Recognize each partner's relationship is distinct and can evoke different feelings.
Complexity of Triad Relationships
- Each triad relationship includes multiple layers including individual and group dynamics.
- Recognizing these relationships helps manage jealousy through self-work rather than blaming others.
Respect Relationship Autonomy
- Don't force poly relationships into a single group or dynamic.
- Honor the autonomy of each relationship and value one-on-one time.