THIS can make your relationship MUCH happier | How to Love Like a CIA Spy Couple
Feb 6, 2024
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Andy and Jihi, a married couple, discuss the ups and downs of marriage and share insights from a study on happiness levels in married couples. They explore topics such as the impact of marriage and having children, the power of commitment in a challenging marriage, the influence of age and education on marriage and divorce rates, the realities of marriage and divorce, and how participating in a relationship-building event called Streetcraft can strengthen the bond between partners.
Marriage happiness declines significantly after the first two years but can be improved through perseverance, problem-solving skills, and commitment.
Higher education and marrying after the age of 25 contribute to marital success, lower divorce rates, and better problem-solving abilities.
Understanding the nature of long-term partnerships and having realistic expectations can lead to a happier and more successful marriage.
Deep dives
Getting married leads to an increase in happiness, but it only lasts for the first two years
According to a recent University of Chicago survey, getting married instantly increases happiness in American couples, but this happiness decline significantly after the first two years. The same trend was found in surveys conducted in Germany and Taiwan. The dip in happiness after year two in the United States is not necessarily linked to having children.
The dip in happiness after year two is due to adjusting to a lifelong commitment
The study suggests that after the initial honeymoon period, from year three to year seven of marriage, couples go through a period of adjustment to the lifelong commitment. This involves shaping careers, social lives, and supporting each other through major life changes. This period of adjustment can lead to challenges and a decrease in happiness.
Education and age play a role in marital success
The study found a correlation between higher education, older age at marriage, and marital success. Couples who married after the age of 25 and had university-level education experienced lower divorce rates. These factors may contribute to a better ability to problem-solve and navigate the challenges of a long-term partnership.
Divorce rates and happiness levels after divorce
The study also revealed that the first two years after divorce are the least happy, but happiness levels increase over the next four years. However, after the six-year mark, happiness dramatically declines, potentially due to midlife crises and second marriages that often have a higher likelihood of ending in divorce.
Importance of commitment and problem-solving in marriage
Marriage requires perseverance, problem-solving skills, and commitment. Couples who can solve problems together and navigate difficult periods have a stronger bond. The study suggests that understanding the nature of long-term partnerships and having realistic expectations can contribute to a happier and more successful marriage.
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Marriage gets a lot of bad press, and it's no surprise why! Anyone who has tied the knot only to watch their sex-life decrease, fights increase, and stress peak around kids and career… we totally know your pain. But a ray of hope recently came out for married couples everywhere after a study at University of Chicago. Today, Jihi and I are sharing those results and giving you some insight into our own marriage… warts and all!