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Our Modern Sex Lives

Feb 8, 2024
Exploring topics such as bad sex experiences despite sex positivity movements, the influence of porn on sexual behavior, consent in young adult encounters, the evolution of sex positivity, and the importance of openly discussing bad sexual experiences for healthy relationships.
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INSIGHT

Sex Is About Dignity And Connection

  • Good sex fulfills connection, being seen, and dignity beyond mere pleasure.
  • Bad sex often leaves people feeling objectified, used, or less human even when technically consensual.
INSIGHT

Consent Is The Floor Not The Ceiling

  • Consent is a baseline but not sufficient to guarantee good sex.
  • Short-term encounters can be meaningful if participants co-create care and dignity in the moment.
ADVICE

Educate Kids About Porn And Risk

  • Teach comprehensive sex education that treats porn like fiction and explains risk levels.
  • Explain degrees of intimacy and safety so young people can distinguish staged acts from healthy sex.
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