The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett Moment 97 - The SECRET Hack Behind The Perfect First Date: Paul Brunson
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Feb 17, 2023 Paul Brunson, a renowned relationship expert and author, shares his transformative dating insights. He argues that the first date shouldn't be a pressure cooker; instead, he champions low-stakes meetups like coffee dates or walks. This approach fosters genuine connections without the weight of expectations. Paul also discusses the pitfalls of high expectations, revealing how they can skew perspectives on potential partners. Tune in to discover a refreshing take on dating that prioritizes authenticity over perfection!
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Rethinking First Dates
- Replace long, elaborate first dates with short 30-minute meetups.
- Opt for casual settings like coffee shops or walks to reduce pressure and cost.
The Problem with Dinner Dates
- Traditional dinner dates often become like formal interviews, hindering genuine connection.
- Pre-date excessive drinking, common in some cultures, further complicates the process.
Filtering for Seriousness
- Suggest daytime coffee meetups as an effective filter for genuine interest.
- Many individuals seeking casual encounters will likely decline such invitations.