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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

108: Being High Value: Does It Make It Harder To Be Attracted To Someone?

Apr 29, 2021
21:39
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Exploring how personal growth affects attraction, embracing imperfections in others, reflecting on past relationships, balancing standards and compromise, emphasizing self-knowledge and transformation through virtual retreat
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  • Personal growth may lead to higher standards in relationships, narrowing the dating pool.
  • Balancing elevated standards with compassion fosters deeper connections based on genuine communication.

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Enhanced Standards with Personal Growth

As individuals grow and invest in self-improvement, their standards for relationships and interactions tend to increase. One's evolving relationship with oneself often leads to higher expectations of how they should be treated, which consequently affects the kind of energy they seek in others. Improved self-awareness and self-compassion contribute to a heightened sense of empathy and understanding, not just towards oneself but also towards fellow individuals. This growth may result in distancing from those who do not align with one's values and simultaneously, a deeper connection with imperfect individuals through compassion and tolerance.

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