How to be civil even if you disagree (w/ Alexandra Hudson)
Jul 15, 2024
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Author Alexandra Hudson discusses the importance of civility in society, emphasizing valuing individuals despite differing opinions. She explores the dichotomy of civility and politeness, highlighting the need for humanistic approaches in interactions. The podcast delves into rebuilding civil society, fostering genuine connections, promoting unoffendability, and empathy for respectful discussions.
Civility involves respecting others as moral equals, fostering understanding despite disagreements.
True civility goes beyond surface politeness, requiring engagement in robust debate and challenging power dynamics.
Deep dives
Understanding Civility
Civility is more than just manners and politeness, it is an internal disposition characterized by respect and seeing others as moral equals. True civility involves engaging in robust debate and telling hard truths for the greater good.
Navigating Differences and Disagreements
Civility is essential for bridging divides and fostering understanding, even when facing strong disagreements. Treating others as fully human, despite differences, can lead to meaningful connections and a more cohesive society.
The Dichotomy of Civility and Politeness
Distinguishing between civility and politeness, civility transcends surface-level decorum. While politeness often upholds societal norms, true civility requires facing differences and challenging power dynamics.
Practical Steps Towards Civility
Forging a civil society involves individual actions that affirm human dignity. Practicing unoffendability, curiosity, and empathy can foster respectful interactions and meaningful connections across diverse perspectives.
What does it mean to be civil with others – and why does this value often feel at risk? Alexandra Hudson, author of The Soul of Civility: Timeless Principles to Heal Society and Ourselves, says that civility is very different from being polite – but that it might be the key to building back positive relationships across differences in society. This week, Alexandra shares her research on why valuing the people you disagree with as human beings is so important, and what you can do to be a slightly better citizen of the world.