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Why 70% of Relationships End in The First Year w/ Sadia Khan

Aug 28, 2023

Sadia Khan, an online therapist and content creator with over 100 million views, dives into the complexities of modern relationships. She discusses why 70% of relationships fail within the first year, emphasizing issues like narcissistic behavior and communication barriers. Sadia reveals surprising insights on infidelity, noting that women cheat more than men due to unmet emotional needs. She offers practical tips to boost dating confidence and navigate commitment challenges, ultimately guiding listeners toward building strong, lasting connections.

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Quick takeaways

The illusion of options in online dating, social media, and pornography has led to narcissistic behavior and a lack of commitment in relationships.

Self-reflection and clear communication about personal insecurities and wounds are necessary before entering a relationship to avoid unrealistic expectations and failures.

Infidelity is often a result of men lacking masculinity and women lacking femininity, leading to boundary-crossing behavior and a lack of fulfillment in relationships.

Deep dives

The Impact of Illusion of Options on Relationships

The podcast discusses how the illusion of options in the form of online dating, social media, and pornography has affected relationships. People now assess potential partners based on their perceived worthiness and are often narcissistic in their approach, seeking maximum satisfaction. This leads to a lack of commitment and a tendency to replace partners with the belief that there are always other options available.

The Influence of Sex and Role Models on 12-15 Year Olds

01:01

The Illusion of Options in Modern Relationships

00:48

How Men Can Become High Value Without Relying on Money or Height

01:10

Redefining High-Value Women

01:07

Intro

4min

Navigating Modern Relationships

18min

Navigating the Challenges of Modern Relationships

2min

Understanding Infidelity and Gender Dynamics

7min

Defining High-Value: Beyond the Surface

12min

The Detrimental Effects of Pornography on Relationships

3min

Navigating Intimacy: Pornography and Relationships

10min

Navigating Competition and Cooperation in Relationships

3min

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After graduating in psychology and completing masters in developmental psychology Sadia began teaching in inner London schools amongst children of deprived backgrounds. She then went on to teach privileged students in Dubai and noticed not only the economic but psychological advantage wealth provides children when their parents can access therapy. Sadia decided to complete her studies in psychotherapy and decided to post a few videos online mainly to make therapy accessible to those who may struggle to afford it and to make therapy more digestible to those who may not understand the concept. The videos blew up and changed her career path to online therapist, podcaster and content creator racking over 100 million views online.

In this episode you will learn,

The #1 reason why men and women struggle to keep relationships and why narcissistic behaviors are so prevalent in dating today.
Why women cheat more than men and the root cause of infidelity.
The importance of self control when searching for a long term relationship.
Practical advice to enhance your dating confidence, providing you with strategies to feel more self-assured on a first date.
Strategies to handle commitment issues, enabling you to navigate this critical phase of relationships and lay the groundwork for a strong and enduring partnership.

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