Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel Esther Calling - I'm Keeping the Baby...Now What?
Feb 3, 2025
A woman grapples with the profound complexities of an unexpected pregnancy following a whirlwind romance and a breakup. As she seeks guidance from Esther Perel, they explore the emotional turmoil of choosing to keep the baby despite feeling rejected. The conversation navigates the dynamics of control and manipulation, the importance of communication in co-parenting, and the personal growth that can emerge from such turbulent experiences. Together, they illuminate paths forward in the face of uncertainty and conflicting emotions.
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Whirlwind Romance to Rejection
- The caller fell in love with a man who initially expressed strong commitment and desire for a family.
- After a pregnancy and business difficulties, the man became unsure about marriage and ultimately rejected the child.
Mutual Manipulation
- Both individuals feel manipulated by the other, leading to the rapid deterioration of their relationship. The shift from wanting a child together to rejecting it stems from a perceived loss of control.
Build a Support Network
- Consider creating alternative support systems outside of the traditional marriage model. Build a community around yourself and your child.