The Most Important Element of Compatibility in Relationships
Nov 4, 2023
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Teal Swan discusses workability in relationships, the truth about compromise, and the importance of knowing oneself to assess compatibility and avoid extreme disharmony.
The most crucial element of compatibility in relationships is workability, referring to flexibility, adaptability, and negotiability.
Compromise in relationships can be misunderstood and should be assessed based on personal values and priorities to avoid pain and disharmony.
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The Importance of Workability in Relationships
In relationships, compatibility is crucial for harmony and well-being. However, the most crucial element of compatibility is workability. Workability refers to flexibility, adaptability, and negotiability in a relationship. It involves being able to mold and change certain aspects to achieve desired results. This might mean adapting to a partner's interests or making compromises. Knowing what is workable and unworkable for both individuals is vital for a harmonious and successful relationship, as it prevents delusions and incompatibility.
Understanding Compromise in Relationships
Compromise is often a misunderstood concept in relationships. It can refer to giving up something significant or making concessions on minor matters. Confusion arises when individuals have different interpretations of compromise. Some see it as sacrificing what truly matters, while others see it as being workable in less important aspects. The importance of not compromising in relationships stems from the pain and disharmony caused by giving up something of value. Assessing workability requires understanding personal values and priorities, free from external judgment or influence. A relationship's compatibility lies in finding harmony in areas of workability and being aware of areas of unworkability that can potentially break a relationship apart.
In this episode, Teal Swan explains what workability is and how to assess it in yourself and your partner. She also reveals the truth about compromise and why it can be harmful to your relationship. You will learn how to avoid incompatibility and disharmony by finding out what is and what is not workable for you. This episode will help you create the right arrangements with people and put them in the right place in your life according to your boundaries.
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