Love Life with Matthew Hussey

176: How To Stop Fear Of Abandonment Ruining Your Relationship

Aug 3, 2022

01:14:34

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Quick takeaways

Recognize and address fear of abandonment to prevent destructive relationship patterns.

Choose vulnerability over destructive behaviors to form deeper connections in relationships.

Accept and reflect on insecurities to promote growth and open communication with your partner.

Deep dives

Patterns of Fear in Relationships

When fear leads to destructive patterns in relationships, resulting in preemptive actions to avoid potential hurt or abandonment.

The Uncommon Path Is Not Well Trodden for Me

03:24

Are You Taming Your Fear?

02:43

Is There a Reward for Trying Something Different?

05:15

Introduction

2min

Wed, Let's Just Leave It on for Now

2min

I Call Her a Little Pig

2min

It's Always After You've Eat in Life. Thats YO.

2min

The Pog Cast, the Pig and the Crow One

2min

How to Leave a Review on Itunes?

2min

The Virtual Retreat Is the Ultimate Act of Self Care

5min

How Do You Become More Self Aware of Your Own Patterns?

2min

Is There a Certain Archetype That Does This?

2min

10.

The Fear of Abandonment and Self Protection

4min

11.

How Often Is Someone Angry Because They're Afraid?

3min

12.

Fear of Abandonment

2min

13.

Relationship Advice - I Never Want to Be the One They Got Over

4min

14.

Are You Scared of That Rejection?

5min

15.

The Uncommon Path Is Not Well Trodden for Me

3min

16.

Are You Taming Your Fear?

3min

17.

Is Running Away the Best Way to Tame the Fear?

2min

18.

Is There a Reward for Trying Something Different?

5min

19.

How to Get the Guy Dot Com and Get Your Love Life Solution

2min

20.

Love Life Team, Thank You for Rewinding Episodes This Summer

2min

21.

Get Too Obsessed When You Like Someone? Question Mark

3min

22.

She's Just Another Person

3min

23.

Is This X Retroactive Jealousy a New Phenomenon?

2min

24.

You're Taking a Feature and Blowing Out of All Proportion

5min

25.

There's No Such Thing as Monsters

2min

26.

The Love Life Club - What Did We Learn?

2min

27.

The Best Jams

3min

Today Matt and the team answer a listener who asks what she can do about fear of abandonment.

When you're scared of someone else leaving, it can make you bail at the first sign of an argument or problem. You make assumptions and think the worst any time you have a negative moment.

If you've struggled with the insecurity of worrying someone else will leave, this episode will give you some tools and mindsets to help feel more secure and clear about your worth and be comfortable in your relationship again.

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Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com

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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

176: How To Stop Fear Of Abandonment Ruining Your Relationship

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Quick takeaways

Deep dives

Patterns of Fear in Relationships

Retroactive Jealousy and Insecurities

Overcoming Fear of Abandonment

Choosing Vulnerability and Growth

Acceptance and Reflection

The Uncommon Path Is Not Well Trodden for Me

Are You Taming Your Fear?

Is There a Reward for Trying Something Different?

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176: How To Stop Fear Of Abandonment Ruining Your Relationship

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Deep dives

Patterns of Fear in Relationships

Retroactive Jealousy and Insecurities

Overcoming Fear of Abandonment

Choosing Vulnerability and Growth

Acceptance and Reflection

The Uncommon Path Is Not Well Trodden for Me

Are You Taming Your Fear?

Is There a Reward for Trying Something Different?

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