TLP449: Failing is OK. It’s how you learn and grow with Stuart Grazier

Stuart Grazier is a full time entrepreneur and a retired Navy pilot. Stuart is also the co-founder and co-host of The Kinetic Man, a podcast to empower.  Stuart opens up about the flawed definitions of success that many people grapple with. He shares the transformative role of community, faith, and vulnerability in shaping a fulfilling life and career. Stuart delves into the importance of tribes, both in personal and professional contexts, and explains how clarity and intentionality can guide individuals toward meaningful growth. Through insightful anecdotes and lessons from his podcasting journey, Stuart provides actionable advice for leaders at all stages.      Key Takeaways [04:01] Stu opens up about the societal pressures that lead men to chase worldly definitions of success—power, money, and sex. He emphasizes the need to shift focus toward personal values and purpose, highlighting the loneliness epidemic and its ties to these flawed ideals. [06:55] Discussing life after the military, Stu describes the challenges veterans face in redefining their identity. Losing the structure and tribe of military life can leave veterans feeling isolated. He stresses the importance of intentionally finding new communities to belong to. [09:20] Humans are designed for connection, as seen in both religious teachings and research studies. Stu emphasizes that relationships are key to happiness and that intentional efforts to build community are vital. [14:05] Stu shares his journey of self-discovery through mentorship, reflection, and accountability. He recounts how mentors helped him identify blind spots and guided him toward actionable steps to improve his life and leadership. [21:24] Stu shares small yet impactful habits learned from guests, like taking walks to spark creativity and creating a daily connection with family through shared rituals. [27:16] Stu discusses the evolution of his faith and why living authentically and sharing his beliefs openly is central to his leadership and personal philosophy. [32:40] Stu describes vulnerability as a superpower and explains how spending time in nature fosters deeper reflection and connection. He emphasizes the importance of outdoor activities in maintaining mental, emotional, and spiritual health. [36:32] Stu and the hosts discuss the value of serving others as a way to move through personal struggles. Stu explains that focusing on others can bring clarity, reduce stress, and create a sense of purpose. [39:16] And remember, People who add value to others do so intentionally. I say that because to add value, leaders must give of themselves, and that rarely occurs by accident. -  John Maxwell Quotable Quotes "If you don’t change anything, what does your life look like 10 years down the road?" "The shortest distance between two people is vulnerability." "You can’t find clarity without first facing the hard truths about yourself." "Community and purpose are not optional; they are essential." "Failing is okay. It’s how you learn and grow." "Let’s work on ourselves first, starting with tiny, incremental changes." "You never know who needs to hear your story. Holding it back is a missed opportunity." "Nature has a way of opening up the soul and creating space for growth." "Your identity isn’t your title; it’s who you are at your core." "Find your tribe. Life is better when you’re not doing it alone."   Resources Mentioned The Leadership Podcast | Sponsored by | Rafti Advisors. LLC | Self-Reliant Leadership. LLC | Stu Grazier LinkedIn | The Kinetic Man Website | YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter | Podcast |