Dating Intentionally 207. Male POV: Dating IRL In Your 30's w/ Alex Koren
Oct 31, 2025
In this engaging discussion, Alex Koren, a creative mind behind the Random Acts of Dating project, shares his views on in-person dating versus apps. He explains how apps can feel like interviews, limiting genuine connections. Alex provides insights from his experience on a live dating show, boosting his confidence to approach strangers. He emphasizes the value of friend-hosted gatherings and offers unique tips for initiating conversations in public. His innovative card concept sparks low-pressure exchanges, showing that real-life connections can be both fun and rewarding.
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Why Apps Create An 'Interview' Energy
- Apps push daters into rapid compatibility checks because people fear wasting time.
- In-person meet-cutes feel rarer and motivate people to try to make them work.
Digital Filters Can Hide Real Matches
- Digital filters prune potential matches but also exclude people who could surprise you.
- Meeting offline can reveal qualities not captured by profile checkboxes.
Attend Singles Events To Make Friends First
- Go to mixers intending to make friends, not to secure a date.
- Remove pressure and enjoy the social setting so interactions feel natural.