The Religious Covert Narcissist

Oct 29, 2023

Discover the chilling combination of covert narcissism and religion. Explore how spiritual narcissists manipulate faith to assert their superiority and control others. Hear about the profound psychological effects on their victims and learn why it's crucial to reclaim your narrative. This discussion highlights the dangers of using religious beliefs as a weapon and offers insights into breaking free from toxic dynamics. Get ready to understand this powerful and destructive relationship.

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Religious Narcissism's Destructive Power

Combining narcissism with religion creates a powerful, destructive dynamic.
The narcissist believes having God on their side gives them ultimate backup for misbehavior.

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Narcissism Traits Amplified by Religion

Narcissistic traits like grandiosity and entitlement fit well with religious roles.
Religion can amplify narcissists’ beliefs, making them feel uniquely special and superior.

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Imperative Thinking Fuels Control

Religious teachings full of "shoulds" enable imperative thinking exploited by narcissists.
This gives them justification to enforce rules and escalate control over others.

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God told me! Scripture tells me. you're supposed to love me! You're supposed to forgive me! I'm the most Christian person you know. You're just letting the devil in your heart. I've got God in my heart! It's not my fault that you don't. If you would just get things right with God, then you would love me again. You know, you really need to pray about it!

The spiritual narcissist or religious narcissist is a very dangerous individual. The damage they do runs deep!

Before I dive into this episode, I want to say that I'm not talking about any particular religion specifically. Also I am not saying that everyone involved in a religion is a narcissist. There are many really good people in our churches, synagogues, temples, mosques, and other religious institutions.

But when you do combine a narcissistic person with a religion, this is a powerful and destructive combination.

God is the ultimate trump card! Where else can you defend yourself so strongly against anyone else, believing that you have the ultimate backup. The religious environment is the perfect home for a covert narcissist. When you've got God on your side, you can do anything you want, right? That's what the covert narcissist thinks.

I am Renee Swanson, and I help people recover from covert narcissistic abuse.

Are you tired of feeling isolated and alone?
Are you searching for people who get it?
Are you confused, reactive and unsure what to do?
Are you running in circles in your mind?
Are you worried for your kids and the effect this is having on them?
Do you want to know how not to raise another narcissist in this world?

I can help you! I offer both group and individual coaching, which you can find at www.covertnarcissism.com

Renee Swanson, Certified Coach and Advocate for Victims of Covert Narcissistic Abuse

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