Habits and Hustle

Episode 299: Jaiya: The Somatic Sexologist on the 5 Erotic Blueprints + Understanding Sexuality

Dec 5, 2023

Jaiya, the somatic sexologist, explores somatic sexology, the connection between sexual energy and business success, sexual compatibility in relationships, polyamory, and her role as a sex and relationship coach. They discuss morning routines, sexual blueprints, deep bonds with multiple partners, the fluidity of sexuality, dynamics in polyamorous relationships, building an online program, and social media presence.

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Quick takeaways

The five erotic blueprint types, energetic, sensual, sexual, kinky, and shapeshifter, have unique characteristics and preferences in sexuality, helping individuals and partners cultivate healthy sexual experiences.

Sexual compatibility is not irreversible; by understanding and addressing each other's needs, preferences, and turn-ons, partners can achieve greater compatibility and cultivate long-lasting and fulfilling sexual relationships.

In open and polyamorous relationships, individuals can form deep bonds with multiple partners, embracing different dynamics and levels of involvement through open communication, understanding, and exploration.

Trauma can impact sexual compatibility, but with open communication, willingness to learn, and professional support, partners can navigate trauma and develop compatibility, approaching it with compassion and working together to address any effects on sexual connection.

Deep dives

Understanding the Five Erotic Blueprint Types

The five erotic blueprint types, energetic, sensual, sexual, kinky, and shapeshifter, each have unique characteristics and preferences in the realm of sexuality. The energetic blueprint is turned on by anticipation and non-genital orgasms, while the sensual blueprint finds pleasure in taste, touch, and smell. The sexual blueprint is focused on traditional sexual activities, and the kinky blueprint explores taboos and intense sensation. Lastly, the shapeshifter blueprint encompasses a spectrum of sexual preferences. Although each blueprint has its superpowers, they also have shadow sides, such as shame or trauma. Understanding and embracing these blueprints can help individuals and partners navigate and cultivate healthy sexual experiences.

Introduction

2min

Somatic Sexology: A Holistic Approach to Understanding Sexuality

4min

Embracing Authenticity and Pleasure

20min

Transmutation Breath and Sexual Energy

4min

Exploring the Benefits of a New Omega Three Supplement - Green Fat

2min

A Break to Thank the Sponsor OneSkin and Discuss the Effectiveness of Their Skincare Products

2min

Transmuting Energy During Orgasm

16min

Deep Bonds and Multiple Partners

17min

Exploring the Fluidity of Sexuality and Comparing Approaches to Sexuality

3min

10.

Dynamics and Support in Polyamorous Relationships

14min

11.

Building an Online Program

12min

12.

Discussing Social Media Presence and an Advertisement for the Yap Media Podcast Network

2min

Have you ever heard of somatic sexology? It's a fascinating field that studies the relationship between our bodies (soma) and our sexuality. It's about understanding and harnessing our sexual energy, not just for physical intimacy but also for personal growth and success in all areas of life. That’s what we explore in this episode of the Habits & Hustle podcast with Jaiya, the somatic sexologist.

Jaiya explores the concept of somatic sexology and its importance in understanding our own sexual blueprints shedding light on the often misunderstood realm of sexuality. She also discusses the intriguing connection between sexual energy and business success, the significance of sexual compatibility in relationships, the multifaceted aspects of polyamory, and her role as a sex and relationship coach, and how her guidance can lead to transformative changes in your life.

What we discuss:

(0:00:00) - Jaya shares her journey as a somatic sexologist and the importance of understanding our own sexual blueprints

(0:12:32) - Jaya shares her experience overcoming challenges in her business due to the explicit nature of her content

(0:23:43) - The concept of sex transmutation and its role in awakening genius in the brain

(0:27:11) - Jaya shares her morning routine, emphasizing the practice of Vajrayogini and the concept of transmutation

(0:35:18) - Sexual blueprints and their impact on our experiences with intimacy and pleasure

(0:42:54) - Jaya shares her experience of creating deep bonds with her five long-term partners, each serving different purposes in her life

(0:53:08) - Polyamory and open relationships, including Jaya's personal experience

(0:59:07) - Jaya and Jenn share personal experiences with the five sexual blueprints and discuss the importance of willingness to learn and grow

(1:11:29) - Jaya shares insights into her work as a sex and relationship coach, focusing on transforming relationships and unlocking sexual potential

(1:22:50) - The importance of valuing oneself and setting appropriate rates for services, highlighting the significance of self-worth and communication in relationships

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Find more from Jen:

Website: https://www.jennifercohen.com/

Instagram: @therealjencohen

Books: https://www.jennifercohen.com/books

Speaking: https://www.jennifercohen.com/speaking-engagement

Learn more from Jaiya:

Book: Your Blue Print for Pleasure

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/missjaiya/