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Choosing a Partner Means Choosing a Story
- When choosing a partner, you also choose a shared story that shapes your relationship.
- Partners often get recruited into roles or patterns they didn't anticipate in their story together.
Feeling Downgraded After Parenthood
- One person expressed feeling downgraded after having a child, believing focus shifted entirely to the kids.
- This highlights common tensions about changing roles post-parenthood affecting relationships.
Reach Each Other Directly
- Couples must communicate openly and reach each other to move beyond seeing partners as extensions of someone else.
- Esther encourages focusing on present connection rather than past relational patterns.