Sex With Emily

Why Your Sex Life Isn't as Good As It Could Be

May 9, 2025
Dolly Josette, a renowned sexological bodyworker featured in Cosmopolitan and Hustler, shares her journey of healing and reclaiming pleasure after a sexless marriage. She discusses the transformative power of breathwork and self-touch, emphasizing the importance of connecting with one's body. Dolly explains the difference between orgasm and climax, and introduces practices like vulva mapping and vulva hugging for deep emotional connection. She advocates for mindfulness and self-exploration as keys to enhancing sexual experiences and overcoming societal pressures.
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ANECDOTE

Healing Through Self-Touch Journey

  • Dolly healed from a sexless marriage through self-touch, mirror work, and reconnecting with her body.
  • This personal journey empowered her to reclaim pleasure and prepare for new compatible relationships.
INSIGHT

Power of Somatic Healing

  • Somatic healing reconnects you to your body's wisdom beyond constant overthinking.
  • Numbing leads to lost enjoyment; somatic work restores presence and agency in sexuality.
ADVICE

Explore Through Vulva Mapping

  • Engage in vulva mapping by exploring anatomy point-by-point with a trusted guide.
  • Feelings and sensations during mapping are essential for healing and expanding pleasure potential.
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