The Mel Robbins Podcast

Why You Feel Lost in Life: Dr. Gabor Maté on Trauma & How to Heal

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Mar 24, 2025
Dr. Gabor Maté, a pioneering physician and author, explores the profound influence of childhood trauma on adult life. He explains how early experiences, often unnoticed, shape our behaviors and relationships. Listeners learn that trauma can manifest in various survival patterns like addiction and people-pleasing. The conversation emphasizes that while past traumas aren't one's fault, healing requires personal responsibility. Maté advocates for self-compassion and highlights the importance of reconnecting with joy to foster emotional well-being.
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ANECDOTE

Dr. Mate's Early Trauma

  • Dr. Gabor Maté was born in Budapest during WWII to Jewish parents facing persecution.
  • His first year was marked by trauma under Nazi occupation, including family loss and separation from his mother.
INSIGHT

Impact of Childhood Experiences

  • Childhood experiences, starting even before birth, significantly shape adult development.
  • A mother's emotional state during pregnancy impacts the child's brain development through stress hormones.
INSIGHT

Defining Trauma

  • Trauma is not the event itself, but the internal psychological wound it creates.
  • It's the impact of the event, not the event itself, that shapes us.
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