BHE 150 - 2 lone swordsmen telling instinctstories

Deserted by the others, the two lone swordsmen continued into the abyss of the unknown. With only memories of forgotten ancient texts to guide them. These are their stories.

— (5:25) The role of cultural differences in the expression of type / confrontational blunt 9s from other cultures
— (12:20) How our early life experiences and environment create an unexpected relationship with certain instincts / Emeka and food
— (22:01) Digging up John’s leftover concept of each instinct having a close vs distant optimal distance
— (28:28) The difference between 9s merging and sexual instinct merging / instinctual dynamics in relationships
— (36:45) Wild topic switch to social-contextual dynamics in dating / race as an overlooked significant contextual layer / female vs male gaze
— (43:40) Most people are making sexual choices with social reasons 
— (50:49) John’s ‘effortlessly masculine’ and Emeka’s black artist with masc/fem interplay
— (56:10) When we feel safe those optimal distance polarities dissolve

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