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Understanding that there is a pattern to reality is crucial, as it helps us navigate the complexity of our existence. In a world filled with pain and a growing intimacy disorder, recognizing these patterns may lead to a profound sense of interconnectedness. The only appropriate response to such pain is outrageous love, which transcends mere sentiment and embodies the essence of existence itself. This radical love serves as a guiding force that motivates individuals to connect with each other and the universe at large.
Kabbalah offers a unique framework for understanding our existence, using the tree of life as a symbol of divine qualities and unique gifts. Within Kabbalah, there is a belief that by understanding the ten emanations, individuals can uncover their unique contributions to the cosmos. Each person's identity is not merely defined by separateness but by the intricate web of connections through which their unique self manifests. This embraces the idea that our existence is deeply intertwined with the fabric of the universe, demanding a commitment to understanding ourselves within this context.
The distinction between being a separate self and a unique self is pivotal for understanding one's identity. While the separate self may cling to individual experiences, the unique self recognizes that it is part of a larger collective whole. This realization allows for profound connections with others, highlighting the seamless nature of existence and the shared qualities of all living beings. Embracing uniqueness fosters an environment where individuals can contribute meaningfully to the world and those around them.
To arrive at one's unique self, individuals must be willing to explore their unique risks and clarify their desires while embracing vulnerability. This exploration can often lead to uncovering hidden aspects of oneself that contribute to their unique gifts. By courageously facing their shadows and wounds, individuals can transform these aspects into empowering forces that shape their identity. Ultimately, the journey to understanding unique self is a deeply personal and transformative process that requires both introspection and external support.
Eros transcends mere sexuality and encompasses a broader, deeper longing for connection, intimacy, and wholeness. This longing is an intrinsic part of being human and plays a significant role in our relationships and experiences. Understanding Eros as the driving force behind our desires helps us recognize our shared humanity and interconnectedness. By embracing this desire for connection, we can enrich our lives and foster meaningful relationships with ourselves and those around us.
Intimacy emerges from a deep understanding of shared identity, where individuals can truly see and feel one another. This requires a mutual recognition of needs and vulnerabilities, enabling a more profound connection to develop. By being fully present and embracing our shared humanity, we can create a nurturing space for intimacy to flourish. Ultimately, the experience of intimacy transforms relationships into powerful bonds that elevate both individuals involved.
Love extends beyond romantic relationships and into the realm of community and shared purpose. Being part of a loving community allows individuals to realize their unique selves while fostering a collective vision for the future. This sense of belonging offers support and encouragement as each person navigates their unique journey. Creating intimate connections within communities can lead to profound social change and a deeper understanding of our place in the world.
Unique obligation arises from recognizing our capacity to respond to the needs of others and the world around us. This understanding fosters a sense of responsibility and commitment to contribute meaningfully to our communities. By acknowledging that our unique gifts hold the power to impact the lives of others, we can embrace our obligations without feeling burdened. This unique obligation empowers us to act in ways that align with our authentic selves and values.
Eros is a foundational element of existence that drives the connectivity and intimacy present in all forms of life. This innate desire for connection encourages the formation of relationships, communities, and shared experiences. By understanding Eros as a vital force that permeates every aspect of reality, we can begin to appreciate the beauty and complexity of our interconnected lives. Embracing this understanding helps us cultivate deeper connections with ourselves, our loved ones, and the world.
Unique self represents the manifestation of our deepest desires and the beautiful complexity that exists within each individual. This concept emphasizes the idea that each person carries within them a unique purpose, driven by their experiences, skills, and passions. By acknowledging and embracing our unique selves, we can contribute to the greater symphony of life and help create a more compassionate world. Celebrating diversity while recognizing our shared humanity can lead to profound transformation on personal and collective levels.
This week we explore the depths of Kabbalah, unique self, and Eros with renowned philosopher Marc Gafni. He begins by defining the foundational concepts of Kabbalah, setting the stage for an exploration of the interplay between masculine and feminine energies that shape our reality. He introduces the profound symbol of the Tree of Life and its relevance to personal mastery. As he describes each piece of the 11 stories in the Tree of Life, the discussion unfolds to encompass the realms of imagination, understanding, and the balance between love and boundaries, highlighting the beauty of contradictions and the coexistence of joy amidst life's challenges.
He then describes the concept of unique self, an understanding of self that transcends the misconceptions of both Western and Eastern traditions.
As the episode progresses, we delve into how Eros can serve as a portal to deepening intimacy, and ultimately heal our disconnected world.
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0:00 Intro
1:40 Defining Kabbalah: A Mathematics of Cosmic Intimacy
9:57 Masculine and Feminine Energy in the Universe
20:50 Introducing The Tree of Life
22:19 Keter: The Profound Power of Silence
30:43 Chochmah & Binah: Ideas, Imagination & Understanding
32:49 Chesed & Gevurah: Outrageous Love & Boundaries
35:31 Tiferet: Laughter & Beauty that Holds All Contradictions
38:51 True Meaning of Beauty & Laughter
49:16 Netzach & Hod: Forever & Surrender
51:50 Yesod & Malchut: That Which Receives & Becomes
52:11 Practical Applications of This Wisdom
1:01:56 Finding Light in the Broken Heart
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1:08:50 Every Place You’ve Been, You’ve Needed to Be
1:10:43 Who Are You? Defining Separate Self vs True Self
1:20:24 The East & West Both Got This Wrong: The Emergence of Unique Self
1:31:08 Infinity Desires Finitude: What True Love Is
1:38:50 Qualities of Unique Self: Looking Beyond Nondual Thinking
1:46:16 Your Risk to Bring Your Gift into the World
1:55:02 Framework for Defining & Unlocking Your Purpose
1:57:16 Shadow-work: Your Pathway to Purpose
2:09:45 Your Unique Obligation
2:17:13 Eros: Desire as a Portal to Deepening
2:31:30 Earth’s Problematic Intimacy Disorder
2:41:49 Human Love: From Soulmate to Whole-mate
2:58:00 Conclusion
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Dr. Marc Gafni has been described as a world philosopher — a kind of galaxy heart brain — integrating wisdom from across multiple disciplines into what he has called a New Story of Value in response to the meta-crisis.
Gafni’s doctorate is from Oxford University with a masters degree from Bar Ilan University. He holds an orthodox rabbinic certification from the Chief Rabbinate in Israel and non-denominational rabbinic ordination.
He is the author of forty books, of which only the first twelve have been published, including the award-winning Your Unique Self: The Radical Path to Personal Enlightenment.
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marcgafni/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/MarcGafni
First Principles and First Values (book):
https://www.amazon.com/First-Principles-Values-Propositions-Cosmoerotic/dp/B0CS85WYVX
A Return to Eros: the Radical Experience of Being Fully Alive (book):
https://www.amazon.com/Return-Eros-Radical-Experience-Being/dp/1944648186
Your Unique Self: the Radical Path to Personal Enlightenment (book):
https://www.amazon.com/Your-Unique-Self-Personal-Enlightenment/dp/1467522775/
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Know Thyself
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