Neurodiverse Love with Mona Kay

 Insights to Help High Achieving Women Lessen Frustration & Improve Connection-Jessie Mahoney

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Nov 11, 2025
Dr. Jessie Mahoney, a board-certified pediatrician and professional coach, specializes in guiding high-achieving women. In this enlightening discussion, she explores why these women often find themselves in relationships with neurodivergent men, revealing the complementary strengths and shared values that draw them together. Dr. Mahoney addresses common frustrations, emphasizing the importance of acceptance over the desire to change partners. She advocates for mindfulness and adjusting expectations in neurodiverse relationships, promoting empowerment and strategic self-support.
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ANECDOTE

Discovery After Decades

  • Jessie Mahoney discovered her partner's neurodiversity about 22 years into marriage after nearly 30 years together.
  • Her dual role as a pediatrician and coach shaped her reflections on why many high-achieving women end up in these relationships.
INSIGHT

Complementary Strengths Create Fit

  • Neurodivergent men and high-achieving women often have complementary strengths that fit like puzzle pieces.
  • These differences can create safety and balance for women who operate in high-stress, achievement-focused worlds.
INSIGHT

Shared Values Strengthen Attraction

  • Neurodivergent partners often share values like independence and nontraditional roles that align with high-achieving women.
  • That shared value system supports women showing up authentically without pressure to conform.
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