Guest Rhaina Cohen discusses the trend of structuring lives around friends rather than partners, including buying homes together. The episode also covers retirement readiness disparities, the impact of the LGBTQ+ community, and unconventional living arrangements. Plus, the importance of checking on loved ones during heat waves and communication etiquette.
Choosing friendship as a central life relationship challenges traditional views on commitments and connections.
Legal and financial hurdles exist for friend-centered living, necessitating policy changes to support diverse relationship structures.
Deep dives
Friendships as Central Relationships
More people are considering friendships as central relationships in their lives, even to the extent of buying homes and raising children together. The shift challenges the traditional view of friendships as secondary to romantic relationships, highlighting the deep connections and commitments that can exist outside romantic partnerships.
Overcoming Legal and Financial Hurdles in Friend-Centered Relationships
Friend-centered living arrangements face legal and financial obstacles as they diverge from traditional marital structures. Challenges include finding suitable housing configurations, dealing with financial institutions' treatment of shared debt, and navigating legal agreements that lack the clarity and ease of marriage contracts. These obstacles underscore the need for policy changes to support diverse relationship structures.
Influences of LGBTQ+ Community on Non-Marriage-Centered Relationships
The LGBTQ+ community's advocacy for alternative relationship recognition has paved the way for reimagining non-marriage-centered life partnerships. Legal professionals specializing in non-marital relationships highlight the similar challenges faced by LGBTQ+ individuals and friends forming committed bonds. The community's experiences have shaped policies and conversations around recognizing diverse relationship models beyond the traditional framework of marriage.
A recent survey found that almost 15% of Americans have co-bought a home with someone other than a romantic partner, and almost half said they’d consider it. This is part of a larger trend — many Americans are choosing to structure their lives around friends as opposed to a spouse or romantic partner. On the show today, Rhaina Cohen, author of “The Other Significant Others: Reimagining Life with Friendship at the Center,” explains what it really means to build your life around friends and the financial costs and benefits that come with it. Plus, how the LGBTQ+ community has shaped the conversation around the issue.
Then, we’ll unpack what baby boomers’ retirement readiness says about the wealth gap in the United States. And, the endless possibilities for crab emojis and why our intern, Thalia, was wrong about her curly hair.